Compliments Video: www.iamalpham.com/index.php/topics/the-art-of-complimenting/
Hot or Not Android: play.google.com/store/apps/details
Hot or Not iphone: itunes.apple.com/us/app/id639584030
In this video men's style expert and grooming guru, aaron marino, talks about how to flirt without being creepy. Learning how to flirt is a skill you can learn and develop... it just takes practice, time and confidence.
There is a fine line between coming across as charming & cute or looking like a potential underwear sniffer. Alpha starts with the real world perspective- flirting with a REAL person in front of you. Technology has changed the game, so at the end of this video, a super new app is discussed.
Aaron Marino of alpha m. says you suddenly spot a hottie and you want to make their acquaintance. The first step is to see if there's a ring. Next, make eye contact and catch their eye. Keep glancing in their direction. Don't just stare. Be subtle with little glances. Then use a smirk, head-nod, and look away. Go about your business. When you catch their eye again, give them the grill. Give them the smile like, "You caught me."
Now is time to be bold by introducing yourself. Simply walk up and say hello & introduce yourself. Don't freeze. Be prepared with the follow-up statement or question. Alpha sees a compliment as a great follow-up. There's an art to it, so refer to The Art of Complimenting by Aaron Marino. Compliments make someone more likable. The compliment should not be sexual in nature.
The key now is not to wear out your welcome. Know when to exit. If you are going to see them again, end the conversation and pick it up next time. If you aren't sure if you'll see them again, ask them for their number. What is the worst thing that can happen? They can say no. If they are hesitant or uncomfortable, leave. Don't keep trying to sell yourself. If you seem desperate, it's as bad as seeming insecure. We aren't born being good at flirting. The more you do it, the more comfortable you become.
This newly revised app, Hot or Not, is for single people to connect. After registering, the app shows you single people in your area. You can go through and click 'hot or not' and if you match with someone, you can interact with them. Check out the links below for Android and iPhone.