Published on 29 Mar 2013 | over 3 years ago
Ten ways to be more attractive to your husband
When your husband was just your boyfriend and you were eager to impress him, you spent hours debating what to wear for a date. You simply wanted to look your best and nothing less would do. And when he appreciated the effort and complimented you, it was well worth it.
Many women complain that after settling into married life, their husbands don't compliment them or they don't get the same attention they received when they were courting. But did you ever stop and think whether you pay the same attention to detail that you did when you were dating?
10. Don't get complacent.
It is important not to get too laidback and lounge around all day in pajamas or a nightie have an unkempt look. Take some time to freshen up and make yourself feel good. Take the time to shower and look fresh for him when he comes home to you.
9. Ask for his opinion.
When you're buying an outfit or debating on what to wear, get his take on it. Let him know you value his opinion and would like to wear something that pleases him. Pander to his taste and cater to his little fancies, at least once in a while.
8. Maintain yourself.
If you can, follow some kind of a fitness regime. It doesn't have to be rigorous exercise, or if you can't make the time for it, even the gym. Try and carve out at least 20-30 minutes for a brisk walk that will rejuvenate your senses and keep you in shape.
7. Buy something just for him.
Occasionally buy a sexy negligee or a frothy bit of lingerie and let him know you did it with him in mind. It will serve the dual purpose of stimulating his visual senses, and make him happy knowing you did it just for him.
6. Take care of your appearance.
Spend a little time -- and money -- on taking care of your appearance. We're not talking cosmetic surgery here. Just a little pampering and beauty treatment. Shape your eyebrows or get a facial, a French manicure or a bikini line wax.
5. Make the first move.
Don't always wait for him to initiate sex. Tease and tantalize him and make the first move every little while. Your partner is probably preoccupied with boardroom tactics so it's about time you took over the bedroom maneuvers.
4. Share interests.
Instead of nagging him endlessly about tinkering around with electrical gadgets or wondering what is so fascinating about that dumb soccer match - join him in his fun. Show an interest in things that fascinate him, so that he wants to share them with you .
3. Find humor/ laugh together.
Laughter, as always, keeps a relationship alive. If a woman has the ability to find humor in everyday situations and can share a few laughs with her partner, it goes a long way towards retaining the spark in a relationship.
2. His happiness is important.
When a woman indicates to her husband that his happiness is of paramount importance to her, it makes him feel very lucky to have her in his life. His happiness is what matters to you, only serves to make a woman more attractive to her husband.
1. Show that you care.
Every single day, in some small way, show your husband just how much he means to you. Tell him you love him, when he's sick, take care of him like a little child, pack his lunchbox, hug him often and kiss him like you can't get enough.