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How to kiss a girl and do it right every single time.
Watching training videos with our partners is a great method to explore different ideas and desires, that we could be open to exploring in real life – and that’s actually a super positive thing. More connection, more depth, more wonderfulness!
This is Lawrence and Leah we are here to teach you, how to kiss. We are here to teach you how to kiss a woman.
First I want to talk about kissing trauma. We all have experienced kissing traumas. To name a few definite don’t s:
• There is the sword fight kiss, where there are no lips involved. It is very fast and you only point your tongue. So don’t do that.
• The second one is a terrible Trauma Kiss. My girlfriend shared her experience the other day. She gets into the car with a guy, they have seen each other before, they have kissed a little before, and it was okay, not great. She gets into the car; he is very excited to see her. This is what I call a Chivvied Kiss. She got chivvied in the face, as if she was imprisoned. The guy just comes in pointing his tongue. There is no movement, just pointing tongue. It is an absolute no, it’s terrible. Don’t do it.
Kissing is not hard; the hardest part is just getting out of your head. It happens in your body not in your head. Be in the moment. You should feel it, moment by moment. Also there is an aspect of Goal Oriented Kissing. Guys have a tendency to do it. There is always some kind of goal involved. In order to be a good kisser you need to let all that go. Just be willing to be in the moment. Feel what is happening; go with the flow with no agenda.
So the rule of the thumb is don’t get nervous. Kissing someone for the first time can be scary, you might get nervous. What I do when I get nervous is I slow down. I think there is a tendency in people to speed up when they get nervous. They do things fast, they start thinking and thinking. It is important to watch your reflex. Take a deep breath and feel what is happening, in your body and in your partner’s body.
I remember when Lawrence first kissed me. I knew something is different. I felt immediately that Lawrence was feeling mine and his lips and I don’t think that a lot of us are trained to do that. It makes a huge difference. The basic rule is use less tongue. Tongue can come, let it happen naturally. Don’t let it lead, let your lips do the guiding and following of how this kiss is going to happen. So just go into the kiss, it does not have to be big. Light lips on lips and sense what is happening, as your lips touch the other person’s lips. Slow down and breathe. After that may be you can explore little bit. You can use a little bit of your tongue. Keep your lips and tongue be relaxed. Lick the lips with your tongue, not going for tongue to tongue contact, just licking lips, tasting lips, feel the texture and softness of the lips. Feel the closeness of being with that other person. Just breathe.
That’s really kissing, kissing is not that hard. Take deep breaths and feel what is happening. Use less tongue. Going slow is always better. You will know when more tongue is appropriate, you will feel the momentum, you will know when you are getting turned on. But there is always a relaxed quality of the tongue and lips. If you are tensed let that go and see how it goes kissing with relaxed tongue and relaxed lips.
Lawrence: Watch this video positively. Leah has given great tips on kissing. It is really helpful.