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Just deciding it's a good time to have sex and then both of you routinely taking off your clothes and getting under the covers is not sexy. And it's a fun-killer. Tons of people have sex like this and it's sad. It's very easy to make it much more exciting and enjoyable. All of the little details I'm going to mention dial up the overall pleasure of the experience, and they're all important.
An underlying assumption before we even get started is that you forget all of your body image issues. Your man is with you because he likes you, and you'll be the only naked woman in the room so don't get hung up on anything like that.
Ok.... now that that's out of the way.
I'll start with a list of things that all guys find sexy, and some things to avoid.
Fresh breath: Nothing can derail sexiness like bad breath. You know this. Brushing your teeth beforehand is always a good move, but nothing beats gum when it comes to actually having fresh, kissable breath. Some of best are Wrigley's 5 Cobalt or Wrigley's regular spearmint.
ways to please your man in bedLip gloss: Lipstick can be sexy, but it's thick and has a distinct taste which can be distracting. What is always sexy is shiny and smooth-looking lips.
Your scent: A quality perfume that your man loves is the glue that ties the whole experience together. What makes the most sense is to go shopping with your man and have him smell samples to see what kinds he likes the best.
Your ladyscaping: There's not one way that all guys prefer, but well-groomed is a must. Whether your keep your garden bald (which would be no garden), or just short and well-trimmed, bare underneath is always appreciated. Especially if you want him to go down on you.
Lingerie: Use it. Even though it comes off quick it's totally worth it. And don't feel like you need the full-on lingerie costumes such as thigh-high stockings, garters, and a bustier. It can be simple and still very effective.
What type of lingerie do men like? Here are some proven favorites:
Low rise G-Strings: These are just sexy. Black, hot pink, neon green... can't go wrong.
Crotchless panties: crotchless panties are always a hit.
Black lace bra and panties: Every woman should have a matching black lace bra and panties. Super sexy, classic.
See-through bra and panties: No explanation needed.
Pumps: a sexy pair of pumps gives you that last provocative touch
Pretty much anything from this store... (a personal favorite of my wife and I)
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Don't be shy... Men absolutely love lingerie and sexy panties.
This is where it starts. You probably don't need help getting him interested in sex... in general. What I'm talking about here is you initiating sex sometimes. This is the first step in blowing his mind sexually. When he's sitting on the couch watching TV and for whatever reason not thinking about sex, you being the one to initiate it automatically makes that encounter more exciting and an instance that he'll remember. It makes him see your sexual goddess side if you're the one that takes control sometimes.
And the way you do it is almost just as important... obviously don't just ask him. Here are some ideas:
Text him a sexy picture of yourself from the bedroom(or wherever you're at in the house). A few things that will always work is a crotch shot of you in a sexy pair of panties... no guy can resist that. Most guys will say don't go straight for kill on this one, meaning don't just send a picture of your bare boobs or your naked crotch. That totally works, but a sexy pose that barely covers things is even sexier.
Send him a dirty text... meaning just words. The filthier the better. That will get football turned off.