Published on 16 Dec 2013 | over 3 years ago

इस वीडियो में मैंने जो सीन बताया है उसमें आपका एट्टीच्यूड आपकी image बनाता है । ज़रूर देखें । In this personality improvement tips video, I have tried to give one best behaviour towards the situation very common with most of you.If you go to a cinema to watch a movie. You are standing in a queue to have the ticket. Suddenly one person skips the queue and goes near the ticket window. In such a situation, your reaction reflects your
personality. Your attitude builds your attitude and your attitude builds your image.

This depends on your reaction whether you will enjoy the movie or not. Right reaction saves you from stress where as wrong reaction gives you stress.

This situation can have three different reactions and responses.

1. The moment you see the person skipping the queue, you loose your temper and frowns on the person and ask him to come behind you.
And till he does not come behind you, you do not relax.

2. You stand in peace and just tolerate the behaviour of that person. What to do now.

3. You politely, with humility, assertively tell him, "Excuse me bhai saheb, I am already in queue, can
you please come behind me, thanks a lot."

What you feel which reaction is right and which is wrong. Is it the first reaction? I do not think it
right and I am sure you too. But the sad part is majority of you react like it. It is your personality trait.

The direct and side effects of such a rude reaction are many like it gives you heart burns, it increases your
blood pressure, gives you stress. The anger gives wrinkles on your face. The rage can happen,
the enjoyment of watching movie drains down and you carry such ugly scene with you and discuss it in your
family and at work place. Thus it becomes your attitude and you start reacting to every situation
like it only.

Second, if you do not react at all and stand still, which you do not do and even you should not do.
This goes to your sub concious mind and lowers your self confidence. It lowers your self esteem too.
You feel a guilt and stop taking any initiatives and your risk taking capacity diminishes slowly and slowly. and you start moving away from success and start going near to failure.

Now comes the third reaction, politely, smilingly, assertively asking him to come behind you. I assure you this way you will win. 7 out of ten attempts will give you good results. Even then if he does not come then tolerate and do not jump to reaction no. 1.

Thus your personality improvement will start. Such a tip will help you in your personality development. This will act as motivational and inspirational situation and the success will touch your feet and it does.

I am sure this video will help you going more close to your goal. I am dedicating this video to all the smiling faces of India and the comedians like Kapil Sharma, Sudesh Lehri, Bharti, Raju Srivastava, Sunil Grover @ Guthhi and many more including my friend Sandeep Maheshwary.

TSMadan
Motivational Speaker | Life Coach | personality Development Trainer
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